Day 3 of 28 Β· ChatGPT Course
Your First Conversation
β± 5 min
π Beginner
You have your account. You know the interface. Now it's time to actually talk to ChatGPT.
This lesson is about understanding how conversations work under the hood, seeing the difference between weak and strong prompts, and building the intuition that will make you effective from day one. By the end, you'll know why some people get amazing results from ChatGPT while others walk away disappointed β and it almost always comes down to how you start the conversation.
How ChatGPT conversations work
Every time you click "New Chat," you're starting a fresh conversation with a blank slate. ChatGPT has no memory of previous chats (unless you've turned on the Memory feature, which we'll cover on Day 5). Here's what's happening behind the scenes:
The context window β ChatGPT can "see" everything in your current conversation up to a certain length. Think of it as the AI's working memory. On GPT-5.2, this window is enormous β roughly 128,000 tokens, which is about 300 pages of text. That means it can hold a long, detailed conversation without forgetting what you discussed at the beginning.
Message threading β Each message you send builds on everything before it. If you ask a question, get an answer, then ask a follow-up, ChatGPT reads the entire history to understand your follow-up in context. This is what makes it feel like a real conversation.
Tokens, not words β ChatGPT processes language in "tokens," which are roughly 3/4 of a word. The word "hamburger" is two tokens ("ham" + "burger"). You don't need to think about this much, but it explains why there are limits β every word you write and every word ChatGPT writes uses tokens from the context window.
Key insight: Because ChatGPT reads your entire conversation history, the quality of your early messages shapes every response that follows. A well-started conversation stays useful for a long time.
Knowledge Check
What happens when you start a "New Chat" in ChatGPT?
A
ChatGPT remembers everything from your last conversation
B
Your previous conversations are deleted permanently
C
You begin a fresh conversation β ChatGPT only sees what you write in this new chat
D
ChatGPT asks you to summarize your last conversation
Each new chat starts with a clean slate. ChatGPT can only see the messages within your current conversation (unless you've enabled the Memory feature). Your old conversations are still saved in the sidebar, but ChatGPT won't reference them in a new chat.
Your first prompt β simple vs. complex
Let's start with the most important lesson in this entire course: the quality of your output depends on the quality of your input.
Here's a weak first prompt and what it gets you:
Sure! Here's a general email:
Subject: Hello
Dear [Recipient],
I hope this message finds you well. I wanted to reach out to discuss [topic]. Please let me know a convenient time to connect.
Best regards,
[Your Name]
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This is pretty generic because I don't know who it's to, what it's about, or what tone you want. Could you give me more details?
β» Replay conversation
Write a professional but warm email to a client named Sarah who just signed a 6-month marketing contract with my agency. Thank her, outline the next steps (kickoff call next Tuesday, brand questionnaire this week), and keep it under 150 words.
Subject: Welcome aboard, Sarah! Here's what's next
Hi Sarah,
Thrilled to officially welcome you to the team! We're excited to dive into your marketing strategy and start driving results.
**Here's what happens next:**
1. **Brand Questionnaire** β I'll send this over today. It takes about 10 minutes and helps us understand your voice, goals, and audience.
2. **Kickoff Call** β We're scheduled for next Tuesday. We'll walk through your questionnaire answers, set priorities for month one, and map out our content calendar.
If you have any questions before Tuesday, don't hesitate to reach out. We're here for you.
Looking forward to a great six months together.
Warm regards,
[Your Name]
β» Replay conversation
Knowledge Check
Why did the second email prompt produce a much better result?
A
It used a different, more powerful AI model
B
The user asked ChatGPT to "try harder"
C
The user paid for a premium plan
D
It gave ChatGPT specific details: recipient, context, tone, format, and constraints
The second prompt included who the email was for (Sarah), what the context was (new marketing contract), what tone to use (professional but warm), what to include (next steps), and a constraint (under 150 words). Specificity is the key to great outputs.
How ChatGPT "thinks"
Understanding a little about how ChatGPT generates responses will make you a much better user.
ChatGPT doesn't "know" things the way you do. It doesn't have a database of facts it looks up. Instead, it predicts the most likely next word based on patterns it learned during training on billions of documents. It does this one word at a time, thousands of times per response.
This has important implications:
It can be confidently wrong. Because it's predicting likely words rather than retrieving verified facts, it can produce plausible-sounding text that contains errors. This is sometimes called "hallucination." Always verify critical facts.
It's remarkably good at patterns and structure. Need a business email? It has seen millions of them. Need code in Python? It has been trained on vast quantities of it. The more common the pattern, the better it performs.
Context dramatically improves accuracy. When you give ChatGPT more context β who you are, what you need, what format you want β you narrow down the prediction space. Instead of guessing from millions of possibilities, it's choosing from a much smaller, more relevant set.
It gets better as the conversation goes on. Every message you send gives it more context. A vague first message followed by clarifying follow-ups will still lead to good results β just less efficiently than starting with a clear prompt.
Knowledge Check
What should you do if ChatGPT gives you a factual claim you're not sure about?
A
Trust it completely β AI is always accurate
B
Verify the claim through a reliable source, or ask ChatGPT to search the web for confirmation
C
Ask ChatGPT "are you sure?" (this always fixes errors)
D
Assume it's wrong and ignore it
ChatGPT can sometimes generate incorrect information with high confidence. For important facts, verify through reliable sources. You can also ask ChatGPT to use its web search feature to find and cite current sources, which significantly improves accuracy.
The conversation loop β iterate, don't restart
One of the biggest mistakes beginners make is starting a new chat every time they're unhappy with a response. Instead, iterate within the same conversation. ChatGPT is designed for back-and-forth refinement.
Here are phrases that work well for steering ChatGPT:
- "Make it shorter" or "Make it more detailed"
- "Use a more casual tone"
- "Focus more on [specific aspect]"
- "That's good but change the second paragraph to emphasize..."
- "Give me 3 alternative versions"
- "Rewrite this for an audience of [specific group]"
Think of it like working with a human collaborator. You wouldn't fire someone after their first draft β you'd give feedback and iterate. ChatGPT works the same way, except it never gets offended and revises instantly.
Write a tagline for my new coffee shop called "Dawn & Brew."
Here are a few options:
1. "Where every morning begins."
2. "Fresh starts, brewed daily."
3. "Rise, sip, shine."
I like #2 but make it feel more premium and less cute.
Here's a refined version:
"Freshly crafted. Every morning."
Or if you want even more weight:
"The finest start to your day."
"Exceptional coffee. Every dawn."
"Freshly crafted. Every morning." is perfect. Now write a 50-word description for our website using that tagline.
**Dawn & Brew** β Freshly crafted. Every morning.
We source single-origin beans from sustainable farms and roast them in small batches at our local roastery. Every cup is made to order by baristas who take their craft seriously. Whether you're starting your day or fueling your afternoon, this is coffee done right.
β» Replay conversation
Knowledge Check
What should you do when ChatGPT's response isn't quite right?
A
Switch to a more expensive plan for better outputs
B
Give specific feedback and ask for revisions within the same conversation
C
Accept what you got β AI can't be improved through feedback
D
Start a new conversation and try again from scratch
The best results come from iterating. Tell ChatGPT what you liked, what needs to change, and what direction to go. Each piece of feedback makes the next response better because ChatGPT uses your entire conversation as context.
π
Day 3 Complete
"Great conversations with ChatGPT start with clear prompts and improve through iteration. Don't restart β refine. The back-and-forth is where the magic happens."
Tomorrow β Day 4
Writing Effective Prompts
You'll learn the prompt formula that turns vague requests into powerful, specific instructions that get great results every time.